Don't compare yourself !

Hello friends. 

It's been a long time. I gulped myself in work, study and so many others stuffs that I totally drove out of the blog. But underneath all that preassure, I was restless, always looking for the next topic because I kept in mind my purpose. 

Today, I want to share with you my thoughts about comparizing ourselves, our life to others life. Let me tell what happened to me few weeks ago. I moved to another home. I really like my new place it is calm and cosy. Once, I was walking to my appartment and my neighbor's door was between-opened and I have few seconds look to her home. Instantly, something passed through my mind and I thought her home was more beautiful than mine. But two days after, she invited me to talk and that day I got my revelation. Indeed her home was beautifully decorated but it was smaller than mine, less luminous than mine. From that day I realized my home was perfect for me. It doesn't have enough space but it has everything I need a home and I can hear the birds singing in the morning when I wake up. That day I laughed at myself. It was a stupid thought but it helped me understand that I have not to compare to others. I learned from it and I want you too to learn from this mistake I did. 

Even though you are facing struggles, misunderstood, trials and battles, difficulties, don't compare yourself with others. Don't get involved in it because nothing good ain't never coming out of that. 

Friends, here are three majors reasons we should all start to trust our life and stop comparizing with others life. 

1. It is unproductive. Comparing changes nothing! Instead of waisting time doing comparison with what you have or not to what others have, we should start to accept what we have just as it is. We must find the better way to appreciate what we have. There is always something doing that what you have is particular. In my story above, my home and my neighbor's are the same in terms of space distribution. Each of us have decorated her home as like. But I found a way to love what I have. I enjoy everyday the birds singing and I make it perfect to me.

2. It drives you to jealousy and you will be waisting time. It is not an obligation for us to have the prettiest. What we need is to feel good, happy. Comparing will make you feel like you don't have everything, you don't have enough, but it will never show you what you have. 

3. It demeanishes your own value. You are seeing your life in someone else's mirror and nothing good ain't going to come out of it, trust me. It may seems beautiful to you but it ain't, just because it is not your life, it is not you, and you are demeanishing your value. You are worth, we are all worth, and we have what it takes to become everything we want. What you see now, what you face now, may be painful for you, but you don't have to be sorry of it. Nobody ever says it is going to be pink and nice. Take and own every situation. It is yours.

"Comparing yourself to others is an act of violence against your authentic self" Iyanla Vanzant.

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LOVE!!