Be responsible !

Hello friends.

Firstly, let me wish you a sunny and happy sunday. Secondly, let us talk about the responsability of our own lives.

I failed this because someone did this or did not. I did not succeed in this because of this circumstance, because of this person. And so on and so on… and what about you? What have you done? which opportunity have you ever take? We often fail to take responsibility for our life, accusing the fate, the gods, friends and family, poverty of time to deny our own responsibility for our life and future.

I know sometimes it might be difficult, it might be tough and we need to be more than willingly to breakthrough. But even though we may end up saying we have done all it was possible for us to do, give what ever it had cost. This is how we are going to act by now: 

1- Make yours your disappointments and disillusions. I do not have friends because people are fake, I failed this exam because the teacher is a fool, I made mistake because I was not well advised, and others things we used to tell ourselves to put onto others the responsibility of our disappointments instead of put it onto our self. Stop hiding from reality and get some nerves. Ours disappointments are the simple results of our choices. We might have take unappropriate decisions, or we might not give all and every card and best shot we had to it. Or simply, what we wanted was not for us. 

2- Go through every engagement even if it seems not to be as clear as you wish. To live means to celebrate life, give love and receive it as it comes to you, dwell with others in harmony while being responsible for our acts. If you think you are not ready for something, be courageous and honest enough to recognise it and walk away. No one will blame you because you acknowledge your limits or your unskillness, but they will blame you if you fail to go through your engagements. 

3-Take and consider any advice that comes up to you. We may think you already know what to do in each way but sometimes we failed because of our pride and selfishness. We must accept the fact that one may have a better idea. I’m not saying you must do what others want you to do but you must first listen and consider then what to take and what you should not by balancing it with what you want. Wait, listen, watch and then act. 

‘’The price of greatness is the responsibility."-Winston Churchill-

LOVE!!